tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post115760299632871736..comments2023-10-10T03:09:12.713-07:00Comments on Smart Stepfamilies: The StepmomFajitahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post-1159971963534112092006-10-04T07:26:00.000-07:002006-10-04T07:26:00.000-07:00Yes, the movie cannot cover all of the varieties o...Yes, the movie cannot cover all of the varieties offered in divorce and remarriage situtations. It does a good job on a few. <BR/><BR/>I would contend that no deserves resentment. I know I am not actually touching life in "the real world" when I say that, but one wrong does not deserve another. It feels like it does, but it doesn't.Fajitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post-1158029083071671952006-09-11T19:44:00.000-07:002006-09-11T19:44:00.000-07:00Laia said that small steps ia what it is all about...Laia said that small steps ia what it is all about. Wise words for anyone.Fajitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post-1157911000373364872006-09-10T10:56:00.000-07:002006-09-10T10:56:00.000-07:00Mom24 from "Stepville," Excellent words. My favori...Mom24 from "Stepville," <BR/><BR/>Excellent words. My favorite part about what you said was that allow feelings to be expressed. The mere fact that there is emotional space for that kind of openness in your family says a lot. <BR/><BR/>There is often the temptation to take negative emotions felt by someone else and personalize them and interpret them as blame and accusation. It appears you have found a way to bypass that initial assumption. That saves you much grief. Nice work.Fajitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post-1157675996850215002006-09-07T17:39:00.000-07:002006-09-07T17:39:00.000-07:00dwatson, wow! What restraint. Your honor for your ...dwatson, wow! What restraint. Your honor for your stepchildren's mother is remarkable, and will be well worth it.Fajitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30713143.post-1157641717479497742006-09-07T08:08:00.000-07:002006-09-07T08:08:00.000-07:00randy's girl,Thanks for the input. You are correct...randy's girl,<BR/><BR/>Thanks for the input. You are correct that the movie was a tad bit rosey in places. It's Hollywood, what can I tell you? <BR/><BR/>You sound like you ave made some trrific growth in accepting the realities of your situation. Acceptance is key!Fajitahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05704189756009543355noreply@blogger.com